What do women think about most when fantasizing about their wedding?

Evangeline Crow — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 18:33:27 +0000

Just like the title says. What would a sixteen year old fantasize most about when fantasizing about her wedding?

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buhbyebirdie — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 19:10:48 +0000

When I was 15 my best friends planned my wedding for me. I believe at the time I was most interested in having the boy who I was OMGsuper in love with be in love with me. I was also desperately in love with the idea of having a really pretty dress and everyone pay attention to me.

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sarah_hart — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 20:47:45 +0000

I'm one of those women that have fantasized about her wedding since she knew what the word meant. For me, it was about the colors, the style of dress I would wear, and how the groom would look at me when he first spotted me walking down the aisle. Most of my dreams came true - the dress was slightly different. ;)

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Aneith — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 20:48:44 +0000

The groom... who doesn't exist, btw, but maybe one day... As for the wedding itself (and aside from questioning whether I'd ever risk getting married), probably the dress, the guest lists, the location, and the decorations.

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Sparky_Marshall — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 21:07:23 +0000

I would think about colors and the dress the most I think. And maybe my groom if I was crushing hard on a certain guy at the time.

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MissMacchiatoLoves — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 21:21:42 +0000

I've never imagined the dress, since it probably wouldn't be fashionable by then, but i have thought about the flowers, the location, the colour scheme... I always tried to imagine what our first dance would be too, and who I'd pick as bridesmaids, whether the wedding would be big or small and intimate... No groom on the horizon though!

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Anny20 — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 22:23:49 +0000

The way you get to the church (carriage or car), the music that has to be played, the words used during the service, the dress. In fact, all I miss is a guy =P

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dancer_kirsten — Sun, 06 Nov 2011 22:24:28 +0000

I was all about the dress. Seriously, I was one heck of a selfish puppy back then > I couldn't care less about the guy or the rest of the wedding party, but I had a scrapbook of favourite wedding dresses. Fast-forward 20 years and I still don't have the guy or the wedding (and therefore not a dress either), but the scrapbook is still there.

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Halo2 — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 01:12:08 +0000

I never fantasised about getting married. And when I actually did get married it was a right royal pain in the **** organising everything, because I still couldn't care less. The only thing I was interested in was the actual moment of saying 'I do'. The rest was just an annoying add on that had to happen or my relatives would have killed me. Maybe I'm just odd... The dress was rather nice though...

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e.marie — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 03:17:41 +0000

For me, it was primarily the dress (of course), the first dance song, and actually a lot about the actual ceremony, that is, how I would enter the church, the music I would walk to, the groom watching me walk in, thinking about having everyone I know watching us take our vows.

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songbird0530 — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 06:41:28 +0000

I dreamed/still dream about ALL aspects of the wedding. ^_^ I seriously have been planning my ideal wedding since I was in 8th grade. Obviously some details have changed since way back then, but the general feel and idea has stayed the same. Anyways, getting a little off track. Growing up it really was just dreaming about everything that had to do with the wedding day, but in the past six months to a year or so it has shifted a bit. Yes, I still dream about all the details of the wedding itself, but I have started finding myself dreaming more about life after the wedding, the fact that I will be a wife and eventually a mother. I am getting to the point where that is what I most look forward to about getting married and not the big party. I guess when you start to grow and mature that is where the dreaming starts to go. ^_^

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Saspirilla — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 21:53:33 +0000

I dream of running off to Vegas with someone (haven't met him yet). Except my mother would kill me tee hee.

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Piper the Perfect — Mon, 07 Nov 2011 22:47:10 +0000

I loved fantasizing about the gown, and how much fun the reception would be.

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fantasychallange7 — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 02:02:26 +0000

I never really fantasized about the wedding itself, just the first night together haha. XD (I may or may not have had questionable morals/ethics, depending on who you asked?) It was't really so much the sexytime as much as it was just being close to somebody though, so... I wasn't that 'bad' haha :D Every now and then I'd get a little mini flash-fantasy about just having a life with the person, maybe with a kid or something. (Which is especially funny, because I don't really think I want kids. XD)

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Romancegirl — Tue, 08 Nov 2011 09:47:30 +0000

Whenever I dream or daydream about it it's always about that first dance and the music we'll be playing to. It changes about every time, just as the guy that I'm dancing with has changed over time. But it was always about that first dance. :) Now of course I am with a guy who hates dancing and whose body isn't really exactly made for it... So that's not really helping. We do know that he's going to enter the church on the Mario tune. If I could realise it I would probably totally come in floating like Peach always does. Unfortunately we can't do that, so I'll have to find something else. We're not even done with college so we still have time. Next to the fact that he hasn't even proposed yet XD

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Dark.Angel — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 16:37:55 +0000

This is the order in which I think about things (not in order of importance): The dress What walking down the aisle is going to be like What my first kiss is going to be like (in front of all those people!) The dancing ....the 'later that evening'.... The morning after....

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Realmling — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 18:49:50 +0000

The one thing I knew I absolutely didn't want was that damn awful "Here comes the bride" music anywhere near my day when I gave it a random passing thought. And it never made an appearance at my wedding, can't remember what I ended up going with, but it was a great deal better. Then was the dress and the flowers (which ended up totally different than what I'd drummed up in my head). I can say I certainly never fantasized a drunk father of the bride though. Totally could have done without that element. I'm still fantasizing about a honeymoon in Germany ... or anywhere really ... it's been 10 years now and I may just eventually get the husband to take me on it. (we couldn't afford it at the time, which is the excuse he still gives me -- I don't buy it as much as the fact that he doesn't like to go anywhere)

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Lionne — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 22:55:35 +0000

The dress. The first dance as a married couple. Get married in church. If possible I want to make my dress myelf and attach beaded skulls on it, haha. And wear it in church. ;o) And my first dance should be a tango or something.

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moonymuch — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 23:36:20 +0000

When I was sixteen, I fantasized about... 1. The dress 2. The man 3. The bridesmaids 4. The colors 5. The location

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writingmama781 — Wed, 09 Nov 2011 23:47:28 +0000

Am I the only one who fantasized about the cake? I even had the old fashioned wedding cake topper with the little bride and groom on it. My top layer was red velvet!

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skatepixie — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 04:36:58 +0000

The dress and location. My dress was quite close to exactly what I wanted. However, I couldn't get married in the church I wanted -- but the one we did choose was lovely and probably better in some ways. Also the flowers. :-)

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ArtemisLiCa — Thu, 10 Nov 2011 18:43:53 +0000

I always thought about the location first. I always wanted to get married in a big, old fashioned, beautiful cathedral even though I'm not religious. Then I thought about the weather. I guess I'm a little strange, but I wanted it to snow (in Florida? Yeah right.) or be nighttime or maybe even rain (that light misting rain or a gentle rain, not pouring). The dress I only considered in that I wanted something rather traditional, but still fitting to my personality. Also, ever since seeing several movies dealig with it, I've wanted to to the tasting and other look-at-this-and-pick-one things. Should probably add I'm not married/never been married.

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calenlily — Mon, 30 Jan 2012 19:54:45 +0000

I'm one of the girls who never particularly fantasized about her wedding (or really understood the appeal of doing so). There are two things that I have thought about, though. One is the dress - specifically that I don't want the traditional white dress, and probably not even actually a dress, I'm leaning towards something like a green top and white skirt. The other is that I want basically a casual outdoor wedding (the idea is more specific than that, it's a matter of being struck by several weddings I've attended in recent years and going "I want my wedding to be like that").