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    <title>The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hey, what's this place doing so empty? theanab? Matt?

Oh that's right. It's the Lounge Minion's job to start the new thread. At least I get some of the leftover Ben and Jerry's from last year as a reward.

So singles of NaNo, come in, chill, and have a good old time. I have quite a recent story in attempted relationships that will be saved for a post outside the first one.

But don't touch the gold monkey. That one's all mine.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 08:01:52 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>YEAH BRO! The Singles Lounge! One of my favourite writing clubs. So glad to see you here so early!

I'm still single. I was Zel last year, you may remember me ^_^</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 08:03:20 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Zel! Good to see you back! I do remember you.

This was the second post I made after the site relaunched, the first being for the overachievers. :P Overachieving, singles, and everything else? Sounds about right.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 09:05:52 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Haha, yeah! It's pretty cool hovering around the site with so few threads in it. So awesome being on the first page of some thread institutions! XD I don't think I've ever done that before. 

Soooooo, this story of yours about recent attempted relationships? (She says, living vicariously through Sushi...)</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 09:21:51 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>MEJKnowles</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hi! :D

I think I posted in this lounge once or twice last year, but I can't quite remember. haha

I'm just going around the forums to see what's what &amp;amp; of interest to me. Being single, this one's of interest to me, of course. :D</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 09:57:53 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>All right, the tale. I've liked this guy for awhile. He happens to be a friend of mine, as well as a Wrimo in my region. We also happen to hang out a fair bit, and this weekend we went on a caving trip together with a bunch of other cavers. After that ended we had a bunch of extra supplies so we went ahead and went camping for another night at a nearby park.

We tend to do stuff like this together--camping, hiking, pub crawling (and pirate-themed at that). So feelings started to develop on my end, and on the way back to my place today I went ahead and told him. It went something like this:

Me: You probably figured this out by now, but I like you.

Him: Is that a proposal?

Me: Depends. Do you want it to be?

Him: Well, I hate to break your heart, but I don't want anything more.

Oh well. I can pinpoint some reasons why he would make a terrible boyfriend, but to be fair, there wasn't really any awkwardness while we went back to my place and I gave him his Tupperware container back and walked him out of my apartment and we talked for awhile before he left. Given how far he lives from me in this huge region, we'll see how much of an effort he makes to see me for write-ins and such during NaNo season and if maximum awkwardness will ensue since I am one of his MLs.

And then I tweeted somewhat cryptically about it, and people started asking, so I told them (without mentioning his username), and some folks attempted to figure out who it was. Not sure if they succeeded or not. This must be what being famous is like.

However, he is still a good friend, so at least I have that.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 10:04:13 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Aww, that's disappointing Sushi, but he does sound like a good guy. I hope the awkwardness is kept to a minimum. Worth taking a punt, though. ^_^</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 10:09:20 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello, I am the aforementioned Matt.

I felt kinda strange when I stared into the Writing Groups and Clubs Forum. Tingly almost, so I didn't start this thread. It somehow felt wrong that I should start it, so I chickened out and waited for a much braver soul to do the dirty work for me.

Now Sushi has.

I've only been around this thread a couple of years but I am forever single. Is it for a lack of trying? Some would say "yes." Some others would just say "peaches." But we try and ignore those people as they make me confuzzled.

After years of scattershot research, the results of the survey I commissioned are in and I can reveal that the overwhelming trend is that I am not catnip to the ladies. Was that a waste of $5? My crack research team says that you cannot buy crack for $5, so in the end you have to say to yourself "perhaps". But those with enquiring minds would ask what crack has to do with catnip. The answer to this is that I have no idea. I believe we may never find the answer as it is a riddle wrapped in an enigma shoved on a stick and covered in chocolate chip pancake batter.

Perhaps there is some evidence as to why I remain single, but you won't find it in this post as I am certain that I have managed to hide my flaws from you, dear reader.

I could write more, but I'm sure that you have given up reading by now.

Matt.

----

Do you like an anti-climax? Then you love http://ilovemattfishwick.com - or maybe you won't.

I'm on Twitter as the imaginately titled &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/mattfishwick" rel="nofollow"&gt;@mattfishwick&lt;/a&gt;. If you wish to, follow me then &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=%40mattfishwick%20I%20love%20you%20%23nanowrimo%20%23singleslounge" rel="nofollow"&gt;tweet this link and I'll follow you back&lt;/a&gt;.
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      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 10:13:05 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>A.J.Horn</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hi, 
I guess I totally belong in this threat since I have been single for the past 23 years, and it's mostly my own damn fault for not trying... 
Maybe one day... 

Aj</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 11:26:50 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Dream Soul</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>hi, 
well I'm single, but I don't mind it too much, especially considering what the last boyfriend turned out like. oh well, a novel is much more interesting for now! :D </description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 11:35:19 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Woltertien</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hey,

This really does seem like the perfect forum for me ;)
I've also been single for quite a while; but guess what, life is so much better without the heartbreaks, annoying boyfriends etc... :D

This is my first year at NaNoWriMo, so I'm stil figuring out how everything works etc... But I'm really looking forward to November already :)</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 12:02:30 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Yay for the anticlimax, Matt.

Pretty sure that's how you started the lounge last year. :)

And thank you, Sushi, for starting the thread. The good thing is it is the only one you have to start! The 500 post limit is gone!

Well, I'm theanab. Been around for a while, and have reached that stage where I'm good with singledom, but don't want to necessarily celebrate it--which is why I passed my forum-starting duties off the Sushi, and she's really done a lovely job of it. 

Cheers, everyone. I'll be in and out a lot, as usual, and may well be bringing booze and pot back--we'll see if our budget gets approved.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 14:58:22 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>weloveyoujamesarness</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>May I drop in here? I've never actually been in a Nano group before.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 15:13:06 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Mikki</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello everyone :D I've never been in a group before
I'm single and I'm okay with it :D but I haven't reached the stage where I'm happy about it though..yeah I'm a hopeless romantic and it sucks lol</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 16:06:10 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sororicides</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>hello all :&amp;gt; i've never been in a nanowrimo group before, but since i just became single last week, i guess i'm probably not too out of place here. 

also, yay for hopeless romantics! hopeless romanticism can be good inspiration for writing, lol.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 17:20:24 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sprites</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm single and I have a feeling I'll be that way for a few months or so because I was just diagnosed with mono. Ah, yes, the kissing disease. However the last person I kissed didn't have it so I don't really know where I got it. But anyway, now I'm contagious. Ew, cooties. My love life wasn't going anywhere anyway. I think it's because I'm only attracted to about 0.5% of the population and plus I never learned how to flirt. Well, honestly, I still have issues from my last ex, and I'm better off single for now.

So hi everyone. This seems like a nice place (especially if there's booze). </description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 17:59:54 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>MurderDeathKill</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I've decided that my perpetually being single is actually just a ploy to get the TV people to make me "The Bachelor." 

Idunno. I've only actively sought a relationship..... twice? Three times? Depending on how you define "Active." Never really worked out. But I'm in no rush -- if there's one thing in life I want to do right the first time, it's this. I'm not one for singles' bars, but I think I can handle a lounge -- much more innocuous. </description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 19:18:04 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>MissMidge</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Oh, it's the Singles Lounge! I tend to lurk in here and last year I just sort of kept losing it in the forums, but I am going to do my best to actually interact some this year.

Anyway, 23, Forever Alone, living in the boondocks currently and thus with no prospects of that changing any time soon, and I think that about sums me up, at least for the time being. I ought to keep some mystery about myself, after all.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 21:09:29 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>lost in reverie</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Oh, hi there. I'm single, and I don't really like it all that much, but I'm resigned to it for now. I've got a lot of other stuff on my mind at the moment, NaNo not the least of which. ;) </description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 21:23:38 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Yes, of course you're welcome here! Have a drink or two.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 21:43:21 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>GOOD NEWS!!!!

THE BUDGET WAS APPROVED!!!!!

The bar is officially open. See the shady looking and slightly smelly hippie in the corner if you'd like a spliff etc, but don't tell him I sent you.

Cheers, everyone.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 21:55:17 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Screnwriter</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>*pokes head in door and looks around nervously*</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 22:56:47 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sammieclaire</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Single! I don't mind it, really. I get to focus allllll my attention this November on my novel. :D</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 11 Oct 2011 23:48:15 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Wait, does this mean I get those drinks after all? Yessss.</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 00:25:40 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Chasemoose</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hey guys! Name's Chase! I recognize some of you *coughtheanaban mattcough* from Screnzy 2011, and it's nice to meet the rest of you!</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 01:30:55 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Genkai</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello all.</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 02:47:52 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Element-weaver</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello fellow single people.

I've been lurking around this thread for the past couple years now but I've never really made it very far in the posting process. So here I am again up for another round of trying to stay part of a "group". We'll see how this goes.

Anyway. I've been single for a while, some days I love it and then other days I hate it. But for right now I'm fine with it, gives me more time to focus on school and Nano ^^ </description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 04:16:48 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>your biggest fan</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>*pokes head in a gives everybody a big hug*

Oh how I've missed this thread. Is the bar open?  I'll take the strongest drink you have. (and make it a double) :)

I was kind of crushing on a guy at work.  I thought he was crushing on me to by the signals that I was getting. So I went ahead a told him I like him. His reply "You're sweet, but I only like you as a friend."  WTH? He wasn't sending out "I just want to be friends" signals. But whatever. I just smiled and nodded and pretended that I hadn't said anything.

So I'm still single.</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 04:51:57 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Haha, I've been playing around on OK cupid. Joined for larks but it's actually a pretty laid-back site. Plus, pretty people to look at &amp;gt;.&amp;gt; 

Had some good conversations, although mostly with people on the other side of the world. Still! Maybe it will be a place to find write-in buddies! :D</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 05:33:32 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>LiebeLeben</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Yep, I'm single.

I tried talking to a guy today, but being socially inept does not help my cause.

&amp;amp; he was cute. My God. I flail. A LOT.</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 05:37:41 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Chasemoose</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>There's this one girl, I asked her out last year, but we're teenagers and she had decided that she wasn't ready yet. I understood and we've been friends since.
But now she's been getting closer to my best friend, yet for some reason I keep catching her looking at me. I am completely confused about this... any of the girls out there have tips for me? 
Besides that story, I like bachelorhood. Keeps it so that you don't have to watch your mouth so much... which is tough for me sometimes.</description>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Too right ;) Being single is WAY easier. 

I dunno, girls are weird and crazy. I mean, I say this as a girl. So I know &amp;gt;.&amp;gt; (Or maybe that's just me......)

If you still like her, you could let her know. Say something like "hey, just letting you know I still think you're awesome, so if you want to (crap, you're too young for getting a drink, what do you young people do?) catch a movie or get a coffee or something sometime, let me know".

Or whatever. I mean you've already done the hard part of asking her out the first time. Ball's in her court.

OF COURSE if I was actually competent at relationship advice I would probably be IN a relationship. XD</description>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>your biggest fan and LiebeLeben, I know how you feel after my recent attempted relationship story. (See earlier up in the thread.)

As for you, Chasemoose, I have to admit that if I had any advice for you, I'd probably be in a relationship right now. Whoops? Cadaverine gives some wise advice though.</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 07:44:20 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>laura1814</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Single in November is good:  no distractions!

</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 09:20:50 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Tyler185</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I've been single for eighteen years! It has it's pros and cons; one of the pros is not being hassled during November.</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 12:39:38 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I know, I wondered if anyone would notice. :)

Can't put anything past you, b.

How's everyone's prep going so far?

----

Like an anti-climax? Then you'll love &lt;a href="http://ilovemattfishwick.com" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://ilovemattfishwick.com&lt;/a&gt;, or maybe you won't.

I'm on Twitter as the imaginatively titled &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/#!/mattfishwick" rel="nofollow"&gt;@mattfishwick&lt;/a&gt;. If you wish to, follow me then &lt;a href="http://twitter.com/home?status=%40mattfishwick%20I%20love%20you%20%23nanowrimo%20%singleslounge" rel="nofollow"&gt;tweet this link and I'll follow you back&lt;/a&gt;. </description>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>What prep? I'm a panster. :)</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 14:40:23 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>@casemoose! hilo! Glad to see some of my screnzy peoples around here!

And wow. I've been horrible at not welcoming everyone indivuaully, so here is a group welcome to the lounge. As Sushi ad me said, there is a ton of ben and jerry's, the bar is open, and there's a smelly hippie in the corner where you can find other things. Additionally, we were able to get a bit more funding to buy a truck full of halloween candy, and it is all arrayed in very tantilizing order in the Matt Fishwick Memorial Corner, and the gourmet chocolate is behind the bar.

Cheers!
</description>
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      <author>featurepresentation</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>-raises hand- Single person here!

I was single for my first NaNo, but not my second, but the guy I was with... well I ended our relationship soon after NaNo. And then I lost all inspiration to finish my beloved novel. BUT! Here I am, ten months later, still as single as the number one. 

However -insert shifty eyes here- there is this guy I've been eyeing, and I know he's been eyeing me. Mostly by the fact that we've talked about how much we like each other... But anywho, I'm just waiting for him to ask. He's told me that if I ask, he'll ignore the question. He told me (and I quote) that he "want[s] to hold the power over the question, before I forfeit all power over to you." He's a smart man, aye? x) And English to boot! -is a silly little American female- So I may be leaving you lovely people later.

In the mean time, pass the Ben and Jerry's!</description>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Prep? What's that?</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 18:56:52 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Oh, but you can always be single at heart. Single isn't just a relationship status. It's a feeling that you just can't shake.</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 19:00:42 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>This site needs a "like" button. :P</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 19:19:00 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>bobo_the_bard</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello, fellow single people. I'm single and lovin' it. Not that I'd complain if ever I did end up meeting someone, but at least I don't have any distractions in November!</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Oct 2011 21:32:21 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>bump</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 00:11:56 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sororicides</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>these are the saddest, yet truest, words that have ever been spoken.</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 00:26:53 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Element-weaver</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>No kidding. &amp;gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 00:56:33 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Chasemoose</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>All right! Thanks for the advice, guys! Now, to go check out the Matt Corner...</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 01:54:13 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>That reminds me, I still haven't checked out the Matt Corner. I feel like a terrible minion...</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 08:20:23 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>LJMaggie</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Last year I had met someone a month before NaNo started. He also writes and participated. Earlier this year he told me it wouldn't be anything exclusive, even though we still go out every week. So I guess that would classify me as single. 

And yes saying "Single" is hard to do, especially when you know 15 people that got married in the past 2 years. </description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 08:45:21 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>fandango_whirls</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello single people! :)

I didn't know this place existed. It must be nice not being full of smug couples. And there's a bar, wahey!

The absolute love of my life recently got engaged and I think it's fair to say that I'm struggling. But eventually I hope I'll meet someone new. But until then...drink?</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 12:53:45 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Earthsick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Well I'm single. And happy with it. :D 
Relationships are not for me ... I dislike being in one. /: Or having people too close. Or people touch me. Urgh. Keep your hands to yourself, anyone. I like hugging friends though.</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 13:17:13 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>LJMaggie: Keep your chin up, kid. It only gets hard when you're the only single one left out of everyone you know. :P</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 15:03:33 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_42168</link>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I think I'd rather be single than married. -.- Marriage is one of those concepts I just don't get.</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 15:56:47 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>QueenSonneh</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello everyone!

I don't have a witty opening, I only just woke up recently and haven't had time for those synapses to be working. So instead you just get a hello. *yawn* I'm awake I swear.</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 16:31:40 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Being single is more fun anyway. The day I got turned down by the friend mentioned earlier, I got propositioned by another guy friend for when he comes to town. Yes, we have discussed this previously. So yay?</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 19:15:11 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>snowbug</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello, everyone.</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 19:34:38 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>LHSflute</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Newly single here - my boyfriend of 5 1/2 years just broke up with me a few weeks ago, so. That sucks. (Okay, "sucks" is an understatement.) But at least I'll be able to drown my sorrows in writing! I guess if I had to be dumped, the time right when I'm starting to gear up for NaNo is the best time because I have plenty to distract me. :P</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 20:32:35 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Element-weaver</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Really random but I love your display picture XD</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2011 22:03:55 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>LJMaggie</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>@theanab: yeah it is starting to feel that way. Most of my friends are back in the Midwest, which might be the other reason most of them are getting married. I am in LA and my close girlfriends out here aren't married but in relationships. And my guy friends are single. Makes things tough sometimes</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2011 01:19:34 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>@LJMaggie: Yup, I know how it works. My single guy friends are better off friends. I know for a fact age is the reason all my friends are getting married--you hit 23, 24 here and people start calling you an old maid.</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2011 01:26:42 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Writing is the best way to drown your sorrows. Funnily enough, that was one of the reasons I did NaNo for the first time all those years ago. I was getting over an oh-so-hard breakup with a guy who was also one of my best friends before we dated, but only for a summer. Hey, this stuff's tough when you're in high school.</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2011 02:35:50 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Kaywinnet</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Typically a serial monogamist, this will be my first time participating in NaNo while single. I'm enjoying the feeling.

So, hello everybody. I'm a 20-year old (female) college student in Massachusetts. Don't hesitate to contact me/add me as writing buddy once we get that function back! I'd love to hear from all of you.</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 14 Oct 2011 22:44:47 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Cydnorg</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hiiii I'm single ;~;

Cydney here c: nice to meet you all.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 01:07:05 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>littlehurricane</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hey all, 

Single mom here, single as can be.

Glad we have this forum.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 06:08:15 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>FionaAnne</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hiya! I'm the very single Fiona =)</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 17:53:32 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Xonktopus</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello, Hola, Ola, Bonjour, &#50504;&#45397;&#54616;&#49464;&#50836;, &#20320;&#20497;&#22909;  &#1575;&#1604;&#1587;&#1604;&#1575;&#1605; &#1593;&#1604;&#1610;&#1603;&#1605;&#1548; &#1610;&#1575;&#1582;&#1609;&#1605;&#1735;&#1587;&#1609;&#1586;&#1548;&#12288;&#12467;&#12531;&#12491;&#12481;&#12399;&#12289;etc! Who's excited for NaNo?!</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 18:06:34 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Xonktopus</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>argh, computers. switched hiragana into katakana. What I MEANT to say is &#12371;&#12435;&#12395;&#12385;&#12399;&#65281;</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 18:07:45 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_69840</link>
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      <author>Kibet</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>You know that hole in the wall over there? Notice how it is Kibet shaped? That's because people are far too clingy for my liking and so after two weeks, I am looking to get out. 

I'm very excited about NaNo. Last year I was apprehensive as I had won the year before and did not know if I could do it again. I never had an idea until I sat down to write and luckily it just flowed. This year I am just chomping at the bit to get started.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 18:36:37 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>selene.sagaz</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello single peoples!</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 21:52:43 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_72401</link>
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      <author>LHSflute</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>lmao, I was wondering why that was in katakana. :D</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 15 Oct 2011 22:14:46 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_72618</link>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hm, is there an online dating site for writers? Maybe there should be. Quick, someone get on that.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2011 05:54:22 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_77688</link>
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      <author>your biggest fan</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>*waves at the new people*  Welcome everybody! :)</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2011 06:48:27 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_78201</link>
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      <author>Kibet</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>You could always create one on the threads here, trouble is that there will probably be a far too wide net cast with no control over the international aspect, wide age range, Genders, orientation, etc... here. It would need to be separate from this lounge though as otherwise searching for dating partners would be associated with being single.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2011 08:59:06 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_79213</link>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>BUMPBUMPBUMP</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 02:45:28 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_88212</link>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>All this is very true. I was thinking more of a website with dating algorithms and everything, but alas, I lack the technical chops to build it myself and the design chops to make it pretty. The tech skills I could acquire though. Hmm.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 02:56:12 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>brianarants</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>FOREVER ALONE over here.

(I recognize some of you from the screzy thread so hello again) And hello everyone else!</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 04:03:48 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_89312</link>
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      <author>Aneith</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Single mom over here. I'm a hopeless romantic, but am quite happy to be single right now. I'm working on building up my self esteem first. My son's father is going to be the last frog to tear it down. (I hope.)</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 04:47:03 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_89888</link>
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      <author>littlehurricane</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Single mom here too. How's it going? </description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 05:44:07 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_90617</link>
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      <author>harmonyturtle28</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hey everyone! I've been out on a few dates in the past year, but nothing has clicked yet. Though a relationship would be nice, I also enjoy the free time to myself I get with being single. I also do not want to date anyone I know I'm not really interested in again. That is just a huge disaster, and neither of the people involved deserve that. </description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 06:04:59 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_90882</link>
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      <author>snowbug</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm a single mom as well. Hi :)

And hi to littlehurricane too :)</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 18:30:52 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_96080</link>
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      <author>Aisling Banrion</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello fellow singles! I've never been in a relationship, but I don't think I have time for one right now, especially with NaNo on the horizon. I'm planning frantically and trying to arrange my schedule...neither of those things are going very well....</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2011 22:07:13 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=4#forum_thread_comment_98572</link>
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      <author>LJMaggie</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Well I am past that age, so I really feel like an old maid. Just been hiting me hard because my bday is coming up in February.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2011 01:32:33 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_101520</link>
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      <author>TsuTheBlueHero</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello! I am also very much single, and not so good at interactions ( probably WHY I'll be single forever ) so please forgive me if I come across as rude or awkward. I don't mean it. Pinky swear. 

Anyway, It's probably better to be single during NaNo, right? More time to write and whatnot!</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2011 02:31:07 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>OUch--that sucks. Just keep truckin, that's about all the advice I have right now. Sorry.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2011 03:54:49 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=3#forum_thread_comment_103299</link>
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      <author>kfields</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>GREAT! Boos and single women. Make room everyone cause I'm moving in. Is there any other WriMo's here writing Fantasy this year?</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 18 Oct 2011 06:37:10 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=4#forum_thread_comment_105388</link>
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      <author>SavedbyGrace</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>IF there's white grape juice and pizza, 'm in with the whole lounge idea. 

Hi, I'm ... Grace, and I'm very single. XD</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 05:02:47 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=4#forum_thread_comment_118760</link>
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      <author>SavedbyGrace</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Yes! I love fantasy. And science fiction. Seems to be all I CAN write. :)</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 19 Oct 2011 05:03:16 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=4#forum_thread_comment_118768</link>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello to all the new singles! I've been trying to get things done (and okay, being social) over the past few days. Actually, I should probably be working instead of foruming. Oops.

Some good news: Remember how I told you folks about the guy I like who doesn't have feelings for me? Well, I saw him twice in the past two days with no awkwardness. Hooray! I can live with that. This is good since he's also a Wrimo and I'm one of his MLs. Granted, this is also a huge region and he and I live pretty far apart.

Also, he really sucks at Dixit (this board game involving storytelling and guessing which card is the storyteller's story--I think quite a few of you would like it). I turned out to be pretty good at it. Also, the game pieces are bunnies. A plot bunny reference? The world may never know.</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 02:33:23 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=4#forum_thread_comment_133206</link>
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      <author>your biggest fan</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>@sushimustwrite-  That's good that there's no awkwardness.  There wasn't any awkwardness between the guy that I like from work and me either.  I was kind of worried about that because we eat lunch together everyday.  </description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 04:59:51 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=4#forum_thread_comment_135562</link>
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      <author>awake</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I think I peeked a toe or two into this lounge last year but it moves so fast and I got intimidated. 

Which you know, could be a good reason why I'm single.

I totally forgot how amazing the forums are and how just lurking around a bunch of still mostly excited writers can be so inspiring. Its the motivation I've been lacking that's for sure. Now it's going to be an agonizing long 12 days. </description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 07:47:11 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Dude, awake, we move fast but catching up is just another great way to procrastinate. :)</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2011 15:25:26 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>bluesparx</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hi everyone!   I was about here last year as well.  Still very single.  Most of the time I'm happy enough that way... to be honest I don't really have the time or money for the whole dating stuff at the moment.  Occassionally it might be nice to have a guy, although thinking about some of my ex's could soon cure those thoughts!  LOL</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 00:10:40 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>holunder</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hi everyone!

I don't think I was here last year, but I've been single for the last 19 years - guess how old I am^^.
So, storytime:

Last year (my first year of Nano), I was all "So, I'm single, which normally sucks, but hey, no boyfriend, no heartbreak, no trouble, just me and my novel this month."
What happened?
4 days into November, I'm taking 3 days off to go to some sort of annual youth meeting from this organisation called European Youth Parliament. I thought I was well prepared, I was ahead on my wordcount....and then, all of a sudden, I'm completly falling for this guy, who, strangely enough seems to like me too.. well let's just say, I didn't sleep much that night.
But, of course, he's "just out of a relationship" and the "long distance probleme, you know"  and so, all of this resulted in ten days, in which I didn't write anything but a 500 words piece about how men suck. 

Yeah, I really hope this year'll go better.

But, as things are, the same meeting is again at the beginning of November, and of course HE'll be attending.... And this other kinda cute guy, I flirted with in August.

So, let's see how this goes, I feel like I should write a LOT on the first days of November - or work in a subplot in which my MC is VERY depressed for about 10x1,667 words....</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 00:47:13 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>SCurtis_No1_Fan</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>All the single ladies, all the single ladies, al the single ladies now put your hands up!</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 17:24:00 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=4#forum_thread_comment_156415</link>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I really should clean.</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 18:51:32 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=4#forum_thread_comment_157312</link>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>And I just grabbed a fly out of my hair. Like a ninja. Let it go and it appears to have stopped bothering me!</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 18:52:17 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=4#forum_thread_comment_157326</link>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I should clean too. I should also get some work done, as I've hardly done any this week because I was... with the guy mentioned earlier. At least I had a good time?</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 18:58:23 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Having a good time is definitely important.</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 19:10:22 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>holunder</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I really should clean my bathroom;)</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 23:43:43 +0200</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=4#forum_thread_comment_161010</link>
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      <author>Kibet</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Often putting off cleaning the bathroom takes longer than cleaning the bathroom itself. The bathroom is the easiest though as often is the tidiest room and has the easiest surfaces to clean!</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Oct 2011 23:58:55 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>This is a good point about the bathroom. I think the hardest part is getting physical with the bathtub and scrubbing it down. But really, if you do it reasonably regularly it shouldn't take *that* long. Right?</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 01:59:27 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Elven Princess</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I think I posted in here once or twice last year. I am single and hope to still be next year. I finished my nano novel last year, its genre was fantasy but I decided to adopt everything this year and am going with a mystery/thriller novel. </description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 02:36:38 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Xonktopus</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Apparently on a mac if you write in hiragana and then accidentally switch the encoding to katakana before you make the little line under the characters go away, it will switch the whole thing....grar. </description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 06:49:58 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Xonktopus</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>YEP!</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 06:51:03 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Kibet</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>The bathroom cleaner I use, you just spray on, leave a minute, use some soft abrasion, leave for another minute and then rinse down.

Washing clothes is more a problem as with no garden, I can only dry around house and limited amount of space. One of the best days that I had was back in May 2003 where there was the perfect amount of sun and wind. I did five-six washings that day as was doing some for a flatmate. As one washing came out the machine, another went in. The washing would then go out on the line as the previous washing was dry. It was fantastic!

Those with a tumble dryer or do not do washing or live in a place with constant sun may not understand. :D</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 12:07:47 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I think I just found my perfect guy on OKC.

He lives 14,000km away.

I am going to sulk now.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 12:38:41 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hey, at least yours exists.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 15:27:36 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>holunder</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I do:)
Although I' ve been living in a college dorm room for three weeks, and *gas* they've got a tumble dryer around here!
Well, now I only need to figure out how this thing works:)</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 16:27:35 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>holunder</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>What's OKC?</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 16:27:59 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Xonktopus</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>OkCupid. A free dating site. *high five Cadaverine* I think I met my perfect match a year ago, though not on okay Cupid, and zie lives half the world away from me. When I fly back that way to live, zie will be flying this way to work. *facepalm*</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 16:36:47 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I am also totally in love with my MMC from like four years ago. *le sigh*</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 17:18:00 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Arrrrgh, so frustrating! D:</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 17:41:38 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm on OKCupid for the lulz, which primarily means answering questions and seeing how bad the matches are. And actually... some of them aren't too bad. It makes me almost want to contact someone. Almost. Not quite.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 18:15:21 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I joined for the lulz. It's actually quite good fun. It REALLY surprised me how many young people were on there. I was hit on by a 19 year old who looked 16. I didn't know what to say XD

They do have a tendency to send me stupid matches just because they're nearby. Some of them are my mortal enemies. Some of them have kids, despite me saying "doesn't want children" and putting "no kids = mandatory" on a bunch of questions. -.-</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 18:27:20 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>OKC message of the day: "dam ur sxc"

....
I mean, what does one say to that? Really?</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 18:28:07 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>mscarboncopy</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Lmao... I would like to join one if you're going to make it... :P I wish dating would be that simple, or maybe I wish i'm not too picky.. </description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 19:05:58 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>mscarboncopy</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hiya all, this is the first time I'm here. I'm very single and very awkward, I guess those two are connected lol... 

</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 19:10:25 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hi mscarboncopy! I wonder if the two are connected for me. I'm single and a bit awkward. I also do most of my work from home, so I don't even have getting out to a job to get me out of the house and meeting people on a daily basis.

And Cadaverine, I recommend not replying. Proper grammar and spelling should always be a filter for first impressions.</description>
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      <author>snowbug</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm reading that as "darn your socks". Do you have holes in your socks?</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 22:15:13 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Kibet</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>My washing machine here is a combi but I have yet to work out how to get it to tumble dry as it is not a separate setting.</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 22 Oct 2011 23:40:52 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I replied super-polite. That tends to put off the ones who don't spell. A "why, thank you! how very kind" tends to confuse them XD</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 01:38:37 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>MuchLove</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Oho. Ohohoho. It appears I've found my niche here in the expansive world of NaNo forums.

I've been single for...I really don't know how long. I'm horrible with anything more than a friendship. I have never had a truly healthy relationship and many of experiences probably don't classify as legitimate "relationships". Regardless, I am now, for sure, 100% single and life is easier this way. No one to keep track of, or care for, or worry about, and I just feel &lt;em&gt;free&lt;/em&gt;.

No matter the who or why, the point is I have no ties (aside from class) to distract me from my novel writing. Just food and my computer: a match made in heaven.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 10:18:43 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Yup, I understand that feeling too. </description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 18:41:51 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Arlequin</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I've never been in a relationship, and I'm not really &lt;em&gt;looking&lt;/em&gt;, but I am starting to find it rather irritating that every guy I seem to show an interest in already has a boyfriend.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 19:09:22 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>The guys I date turn out to be either gay or feeling forever alone after we break up. I'm not sure what to make of this. Am I just so awesome they can't imagine life without me?</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2011 23:03:12 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Raicara</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hey there all.  I like to think Nano Singles have an advantage since we just have ourselves to take care or ignore as the case may be.  :)  
See you guys around.  Good Luck 
</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 02:11:21 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I have to admit--I love gay guys. I have a gay boyfriend. He was my first date waay back in high school. Shoulda known he was gay then. :) But seriously, gay guys are the absolute best. </description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 02:36:39 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>holunder</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>In my novel this year, one of my MCs's gay - or at least everyone thinks so.Then it turns out he isn't. But, when finally my FMC told me yesterday, that yes, in that case she would like to be with him, he's telling me he likes that other girl...

Yeah, let's see if he gets what he wants *evillaugh* 
--&amp;gt; gosh, I can't even control the love life of my MCs...</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Oct 2011 15:51:19 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>anab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hi,

after reading only a few of the posts, about whether people are happy or resigned to being single, I am going to write a bit of my story but only because no one knows me face to face in this forum - or so I think, since when I told some of my friends about NaNo last weekend, none of them had even heard of it.

So, being single for quite a few years, I am most happy about being on my own when I see how unhappy my coupled friends are. Discussions, frustrations, misunderstanding between partners that I never need to go through.

Some times people look at me in pity and offer "solutions" to what they see as my "problem". I try to make them understand that being single is not a disease I've come to them to cure. Some times they even ask something like: "Wouldn't you love to be in a relationship?" and I have to make an effort not to answer "What for, to end up like you?"

Even then, regardless of the joys of single life, I tried to tell a guy that I was falling in love with him. Just for the sake of honesty, and all that.

"Can we talk?"
(face that says, I'm busy)
"What about?"
"I'd rather be in private"
"It's just to know how long it could take"
"Well... I am beginning to have feelings for you"
"Oh. That would a long conversation"

Eventually, he agreed to get into a relationship. With somebody else.</description>
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      <author>GraceOM</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm still holding a personal record... more than fourteen men have taken me out to lunch and used the occasion to tell me they were gay. Fourteen, at least. None of them got together with other guys to tell me. No, they each had to tell me by themselves. 

One was even a date that was set up by a couple I know. When I got home that evening, I called my friends who asked how the date had gone. "Well," I said, "he took me to lunch."

"But how was it? Did you like him?"

"Listen carefully. He took me to LUNCH."

Silence. And then, "You're kidding me."

Nope. Too true.

Shannon</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2011 05:52:35 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>snowbug</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Not necessarily.

I'm single but I have a daughter to take care of.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 25 Oct 2011 21:15:40 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>JB Dryden</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Does being polyamorous and available count as single? I hope it does because I'm going to post anyway :-)

(PS -- If you don't know what that is, ask. If you don't like what it is, keep it to yourself.)</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 26 Oct 2011 02:13:41 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>darkness_roams</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Howdy peeps!

I'm single.  I'll be turning 30 during NaNo this year, and I so don't know where the time went. I recently moved from just north of Seattle, WA to Wisconsin for my job. My great adventure! Or so I thought. :P

Admidst all the non-singles at work and my co-workers going to a multitude of weddings, I find myself feeling the singleness of my life more than ever. Suppose it doesn't help my baby brother got married and I've been getting the "where's my great grandbabies?" question from my grandmother for the last 12 years... Um, I ramble, and I have no filter between brain and mouth, except when I'm writing my stories...then, my inner editor comes into full force...Although, thats not really a filter so much as that little (okay, oloud voice) in the back of your head saying, "It sucks, cut it cut it now before it sees the light of day, zomg, cut it!"

I know what polyamorous is... I know a couple people who are. There was a club in Seattle that had Poly nights amongst other theme nights. Always wanted to go check it out, but never was curious enough to make the 45min drive down to find it...not to mention the whole staring at nude people thing...I'm a bit of a people watcher to begin with...used to un-nerve boyfriends during kissing...And there are a while lot of nude people there, or as close as you can get and still have semblance of clothes...or so my mom told me...

yeah, i mentioned no filter, right?</description>
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      <author>mandi</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Checking in to say hello. :) Single and happy about it, at least for November haha.  If I had to deal with a relationship right now besides two jobs, doctoring for fatigue issues, and trying to get in better shape, I'd *never* get any writing done. 

So yeah, more power to us. Back to the OKC topic, I also joined it for the lulz... and have also experienced the bad grammar message phenomenon.  A lot is two words.  It's not spelled allot. Some of the quizzes are amusing though.</description>
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      <author>Saspirilla</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>*waves at everybody* 

22 and never been on a date. Looking for someone to get me though the loneliness of being an Honours student commuting from out on the sticks with no night buses (so no parties) and taxis that would cost a fortune. 

*sigh* 

My nana has a friend (older than her) who has never been on a date. We are so similar. It's scary. </description>
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      <author>JB Dryden</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Nude people at a poly meeting? That does not sound right. I'm pretty sure you might be thinking it was a Swingers club. They're both open relationships, but they're very different in practice.</description>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello again, people.

Still here, just haven't had the will to post.

Nothing much has happened since I last checked in, apart from rejection. Oh, and I'll be unemployed until the start of NaNoWriMo, which is actually quite relaxing, but creatively a little unfulfilling as I have no inspiration at the moment.

Catch you later,

Matt.

---

Like an anti-climax? Then you'll love &lt;a href="http://ilovemattfishwick.com" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://ilovemattfishwick.com&lt;/a&gt;, or maybe you won't.</description>
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      <author>holunder</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I've never been on a date as well!
Gosh, and I thought I was the only one:D</description>
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      <author>carlower1</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hi everyone!

I have been single for almost 7 years now.  I tried dating.. but the selection of guys where I was living... well lets just say, I was better off alone.   I have since moved to a much better place but have not had much of a chance to get out and meet any guys outside of a work environment.  

I have been focusing on other things for the past few years.  Namely getting settled in my job, in my new community, raising A Teenager and sorting through a variety of rescue animals that come and go.  Then on top of everything else.. I do something completely masochistic... like signing up to be the Municipal Liaison for my community.  Go figure... Now I guess the reason I don't date is because I am too busy to find anyone.

Well at least I am not overly boring (shhh its a secret...  don't tell my kids that)

Carrie</description>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Dating is overrated. Better to just go out with friends and flirt with anything that walks. (Although again, when you have a guy and a girl both flirting with the same guy, it can get hilarious, although awkward.)</description>
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      <author>JB Dryden</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Wait, wait, wait. You're a single mom in Utah, and they haven't stoned you yet? What is that state coming to? I rely on them for my American crazy factor. Dammit.

/sarcasm

(PS -- I grew up in Utah :P)</description>
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      <author>JB Dryden</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>You say something like, "r u fer realz? kthxbai!"

At least that's what I've been coached to write by my ex-wife.</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 27 Oct 2011 17:21:54 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>your biggest fan</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>It's cold and rainy right now. It sure would be nice to have somebody to snuggle up to. 

I just recently joined OKC. I like it a lot better then Plenty Of Fish. </description>
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      <author>Indie-Young</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello all, I'm single and I'm okay with it. Every once in a while I'll worry that I'll choke to death on something, and then no one will be around to find me, so cats will slowly devour my soft tissue. But that's what friends are for! I've always felt like having a strong community of friends was more important then having a girlfriend.

I'm also considering getting birds instead of cats. As the likely hood that a parakeet will eat my remains is much smaller.

Nice to meet all of you!</description>
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      <author>Phantos</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm single and satisfied to remain that way! If you have good friends, good family, and a good life, what else do you need?

Well... I can think of one thing... /over-exaggerated leer

;D

Seriously, though, it's nice to see so many happy singles around here. I feel like there are too many unhappy singles or singles who are desperately hunting for someone to be in a relationship with. IMHO, if it happens, then it happens; if not, that's okay too. </description>
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      <author>Kibet</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Birds will take out your eyes though once your dead, but cats will gnaw at your fingers so depends on what you need more for as a zombie doing NaNoWriMo. :D</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 28 Oct 2011 15:08:55 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Solunar</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Being single means more time to write.  Sometimes, I lay awake at night worrying I'll die before a single person has read a novel I've written to my satisfaction.

The best novel you'll ever write is always the next one.</description>
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      <author>QueenSonneh</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Wooo for not remembering to log onto the NaNo site.</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 28 Oct 2011 17:16:53 +0200</pubDate>
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      <author>Lanodantheon</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm single now, but I wasn't single for NaNoWriMo last year. Not anymore....:(

Some are content with staying single but I am not. I don't want to be single for the rest of my life and I try to be a good person. Though, for some reason I constantly find myself attracted to or otherwise interested in those who are already attached, engaged, not-oriented towards my gender(Which is a perfectly acceptable prerogative) or not interested in me for some reason. 

All I can do is put myself out there and whatever happens, happens.</description>
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      <author>anab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Me neither. But then, I guess in my circles we don't "do" dates. We are friends, we meet. Most times in a group, some times in twos, but then we don't call it "dates", it would sound weird. 

Weird.</description>
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      <author>TMAC965626</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Between my bizarre lifestyle and my unconventional relationships with my friends, single is the only way I know how to survive. Anything else is just too messy (or worse, boring). Of course, as the years pass, and my friends settle down and have families, it does become awkward, and I will occasionally look at them with envy. But to me, the grass is always greener on the other side.  </description>
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      <author>naggingdilemma</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>The last thing I need right now is to have to figure out how to juggle a new first draft and a boyfriend. Even when it's not November, I generally don't think there are enough hours in the day.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2011 20:21:31 +0100</pubDate>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>You got horses. They make the best boyfriends/girlfriends anyway.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 00:11:06 +0100</pubDate>
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      <author>lystenlove</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>This is my first time in the forums here. Since I'm single and a hopeless romantic, I figure this is the best place for me to start. :P

The name's Lys, by the way. </description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 01:47:15 +0100</pubDate>
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      <author>IrishIris</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Fourth possible year in the Single's Lounge, however I believe it's the first I'll be poking around. Maybe I'm ok with that now.
*waves*</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 03:03:57 +0100</pubDate>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Yay new meat! Uh...

Nano starts in less than twenty-four hours! YAY! Who's ready? Who's not?</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 14:54:27 +0100</pubDate>
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      <author>IamSamThisIsMe</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hi! I'm single, and I'm cool with it. There is someone who likes me, but am in no sort of shape to be in a relationship, so singledom is definitely being embraced :)</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2011 17:04:16 +0100</pubDate>
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      <author>thelilacmuse</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>What a fun thread! Why it took me so long to poke my head in I've no idea.

Also y'all will understand: it's my ex's birthday today so emails were exchanged because we're still cordial and shit. Aaaaand so now of course I am filled with a false sense of "being single sucks."

Hand over the booze!</description>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm stoned. I'm mean I'm stoked. Yeah, stoked.

6.25 hours on my end.

Totally stoked. Sure.

*wanders off*</description>
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      <author>your biggest fan</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>How is everyone doing?</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 03 Nov 2011 05:28:09 +0100</pubDate>
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      <author>piscodisco</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>*strolls up to the bar and flags down a bartender*  Can I get a drink?  Something with alcohol would be preferable.

Hi, I'm Debbie and am new to the whole NaNoWriMo thing - this is the first year, I've been serious about writing anything.  But I wanted to say hi, and I figured what better place than the Singles thread!  I'm utterly single and only sad about it when I watch a hot guy on TV snuggle with a pretty girl.  *sigh*

That reminds me - time to watch Revenge.  Will be back soon.  Thanks for the drink!</description>
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      <author>your biggest fan</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>*waves at Debbie*  Hi Debbie</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 04 Nov 2011 04:34:56 +0100</pubDate>
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      <author>piscodisco</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>*waves back* Hello!  Thanks for the welcome :)  How's it going?</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 05 Nov 2011 05:20:24 +0100</pubDate>
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      <author>piraterie</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Oh, hey, singletons! I found you! This is my 10th year doing NaNo, and I've poked my head into the singles lounge quite a few times during those years.

I've been single since I moved to Japan more than two and a half years ago. Everyone I meet that I'm interested in is already attached, is Japanese and not interested in dating foreign women, or is foreign and only wants to date Japanese women. Anyone who actually shows interest in me is never anyone I want to date (or, upon going out with them a couple times, I no longer have interest in going out with again). I'm usually okay with single life - I'm really independent, so I like the freedom of being single, and I have tons of amazing friends and generally have a fulfilling social life - but this year all of my closest friends suddenly went from being fellow singles to being in serious relationships. Feeling a bit left out and miserable and no-one-will-ever-love-me as a result, as well as occasionally third-wheely (or fifth-wheely or seventh-wheely). C'est la vie.

Hope the writing is going well for everyone!</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 05 Nov 2011 10:05:13 +0100</pubDate>
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      <author>thelilacmuse</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I def had someone tell me he has a crush on me last night ... He's not someone I'm interested in, for several reasons, not the least of which that he has a girlfriend who he's in an open relationship with and that is cool with me but just isn't my thing, but what a nice little confidence boost!</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 05 Nov 2011 16:00:00 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=6#forum_thread_comment_490571</link>
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      <author>ChrissyMarie</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hey, guys!  I was a regular here a few years ago... anyone remember me?  I think this was the same screen name I was using.  :)</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 02:11:40 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_536192</link>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>*bump*</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 04:46:23 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_540394</link>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello all.

Sorry I haven't popped in recently. Don't worry, I'm still utterly alone in this crazy world. Just burying myself in work and my novel 'n' stuff.

You know how it is.

Matt.

---

Like an anti-climax? Then you love &lt;a href="http://ilovemattfishwick.com" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://ilovemattfishwick.com&lt;/a&gt;, or maybe you won't.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 07 Nov 2011 08:37:16 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_544720</link>
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      <author>yoghurtelf</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I can't even remember if I posted on this thread before or not. In the lead-up to NaNo I was "taken". Now I'm single again. And slightly miserable with it, even though I know I did nothing wrong and he is/was an idiot, and if he has a brain at all he will regret letting me go ;) Still, it hurts.

Generally I love my alone time so I'm trying to get back to that love now!!</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 09:19:49 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_570485</link>
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      <author>Semenkhare</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>*Sigh* single still.

All I want is a long-haired metal-loving boyfriend, preferably from South Africa because the accent is so hot, who loves Nanowrimo too.

IS IT SO MUCH TO ASK!?! XD</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 08 Nov 2011 22:02:46 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_581080</link>
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      <author>yoghurtelf</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I don't think so!!!

All I want is a sexy-and-doesn't-know-it millionaire rock star with a heart of gold...is THAT too much to ask? lol</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 04:43:39 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_589836</link>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>All I want is someone to share my heavy metal band's millions with, while I work on my rock 'n' roll side project and write novels in the evenings...

*poses*</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 09:48:05 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_594198</link>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Matt, you're crazy.

See, me, I'm more a folk rocker with some classic thrown in, so I"m looking for someone who likes good music and a good time, even if there is no money.</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 16:37:51 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_597768</link>
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      <author>snowbug</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>All I want is someone reasonably intelligent, open minded and empathetic, who does not run away screaming when they discover I have a daughter.

This has so far proven to be too much to ask.</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 09 Nov 2011 16:44:09 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_597858</link>
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      <author>yoghurtelf</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Yeah, if I'm being serious, I just want someone who respects me and finds me endlessly intriguing and wants to have my babies and doesn't take his toxic previously relationship crap out on me (i.e. someone with a brain he's actually using :D)</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 10 Nov 2011 03:36:07 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_609934</link>
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      <author>Kibet</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>As today's date is 111111, I have heard some countries ahve marked it national singles day. Only comes one in 100 years though so not much of a holiday. Then again, when has those that choose a single life ever get any rewards!</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 11 Nov 2011 16:55:20 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_638990</link>
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      <author>snowbug</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello thread.

*leaves cookies and tea*</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2011 18:37:23 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_675804</link>
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      <author>holunder</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Well, remember the guy I told you about? The one I had this thing going on with last year which got me into a writer's block for one and a half weeks?
Fun story: I met him again a week ago, fell  - again - in love with him, and now Facebook tells me he's started a relationship with our common friend. None of us live in the same city, but last year, he just "wasn't up to a long-distance relatonship." 
Now I'm going to spend my Christmas with a  group of people, that of course also contains those two. Hurray. </description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 00:00:03 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_680337</link>
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      <author>sushimustwrite</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Wow, I haven't been here in awhile. The truth is that I haven't been on the forums much since midOctober. I blame MLing and all the other stuff I have to do. Aaaaah.

Still single, haven't met any other prospects. My region is lacking hot single Wrimos (well, besides the friend I mentioned who does not like me back). This is a shame.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2011 06:59:37 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_687530</link>
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      <author>dancer_kirsten</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>It's not your fault, the rest of the world clearly hasn't tried hard enough just how wickedly awesome you are!

*says the one who's been single for 12 years now ... ;P *</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 15:29:07 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=1#forum_thread_comment_707712</link>
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      <author>yoghurtelf</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>My turn to bump! ;)</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 14:29:08 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_723480</link>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Today is one of those days when I'd gladly give up my Lounge membership.</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 20:42:37 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_742793</link>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Congrats on winning, b.

You did it! And super early this year.

And everyday is pretty much like that for me.</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 22:57:32 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_744469</link>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>And congraulations to everyone who has passed the 50K barrier so far this year.</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:01:58 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_744551</link>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>And of course I'm missing the "t" out until you officially validate. :)</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 23:03:27 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_744571</link>
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      <author>yoghurtelf</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>On the bright side of being single, I get to be alone with MYSELF a lot! I am awesome, and I am definitely my own best friend (not that I don't have other best friends too), so it could be a lot worse ;)</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 02:10:58 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_746969</link>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>*punches matt in the face*</description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 14:54:42 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_752634</link>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Ow.

It took me 4 days to notice. And people say I'm not sensitive.</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2011 21:48:51 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_807317</link>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>How's everyone doing as week 4 starts?</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 22 Nov 2011 21:53:18 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_807382</link>
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      <author>holunder</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>only 4k behind....sigh....I really hope to be able to catch up by tomorrow night....but this is what I've been telling myself for the last week or so...
and seeing as it's nearly 3am, I will be totall sleep-deprived and not be able to pay attention during my lectures tomorrow...</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 02:53:10 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_810912</link>
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      <author>yoghurtelf</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm on track, but it's been a hard slog keeping myself motivated. Last night though I finally found my old notes for the novel that I was SURE I'd written somewhere - I thought they were in an email, but they were HAND-WRITTEN (how cute) in a notebook. Anyway, finding the notes sort of injected me with some fresh enthusiasm &amp;amp; gave me a picture (and new ideas) of where to go with the story.</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Nov 2011 03:38:28 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=8#forum_thread_comment_811484</link>
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      <author>theanab</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Yeah, that means that you get punched twice. :P</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2011 02:37:04 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=7#forum_thread_comment_824545</link>
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      <author>your biggest fan</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm totally behind.  It's not that I don't have anything to write about. I have a lot to cover and I'm having a hard time figuring out what to leave out so that I can finish in time.  Happy Thanksgiving everybody.</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2011 06:46:29 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=8#forum_thread_comment_827209</link>
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      <author>yoghurtelf</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm behind now too. Didn't get any written last night at all. And the weekend is kind of packed :( Oh well, I'll catch up!!</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 24 Nov 2011 11:07:47 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=8#forum_thread_comment_828678</link>
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      <author>LisaFromSweden</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hi, is this the romantic corner for Singles? :)</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 26 Nov 2011 00:09:36 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=8#forum_thread_comment_844282</link>
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      <author>Cadaverine</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hi Lisa! Well, not so much romantic, but I don't think anyone would mind if sparks actually flew ;)

Not that I've seen it happen, but I guess it's possible.

Yes folks I am paying attention to the thread again! I sort of disappeared from the forums a little because I was behind and felt shitty about it. But now I am back on track! Booyah!</description>
      <pubDate>Sat, 26 Nov 2011 14:22:48 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=8#forum_thread_comment_850579</link>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Congrats on the word count.</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2011 13:51:56 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=8#forum_thread_comment_861479</link>
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      <author>yoghurtelf</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>hahaha, there have been some rather unromantic moments in this thread so far I think</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2011 01:09:08 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=8#forum_thread_comment_867570</link>
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      <author>meredithjunior</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Oh hey guys. :) I'm ahead but I'm trying to build up a cushion in case I have no time next week. School can just go die.</description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2011 03:06:54 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=8#forum_thread_comment_868970</link>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>I'm doing my best :)</description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 09:50:12 +0100</pubDate>
      <link>http://www.nanowrimo.org/en/forums/writing-groups-and-clubs/threads/851?page=8#forum_thread_comment_884932</link>
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      <author>matt_fishwick</author>
      <title>Re: The NaNoWriMo Singles Lounge</title>
      <description>Hello there people,

Just thought I'd post now that I have reached the end of my NaNoWriMo adventure for 2011. I wrote 50,105 words over the month and validating the novel gave me 50,106 words.

Congratulations to everyone this month, no matter what your word count is.

This also happens to be my 38th post this year. This also happens to be my favourite number, which I believe it also rather appropriate.

Here's to more writing in the off season.

Matt.

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      <pubDate>Tue, 29 Nov 2011 09:58:16 +0100</pubDate>
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      <description>So how's everybody doing?</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 04:41:33 +0100</pubDate>
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      <description>I'm doing all right, I won NaNo so there's that. Life is slowly getting back on track again after a miserable almost two months. So yeah, I'm not doing too badly!</description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 08 Dec 2011 05:23:07 +0100</pubDate>
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      <description>Happy New Year!</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 08 Jan 2012 16:46:44 +0100</pubDate>
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      <description>Hi friends
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      <pubDate>Wed, 01 Feb 2012 04:18:46 +0100</pubDate>
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      <description>BUMP</description>
      <pubDate>Sun, 12 Feb 2012 20:47:03 +0100</pubDate>
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