Orphans-Why do you hate them?

LLJade
Orphans-Why do you hate them?

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Mrt 30, 2008 - 08 54

I noticed in another post that was put up that alot of people here seem to agree that they hate orphans, so I have to ask you all this. Why do you hate orphans in stories? I'm asking this cuz I have two main characters who are orphans (though one only thinks she is due to some plot stuff that I won't go into unless you feel I should). Now, their lack of parents isn't really something that plays a big part in the story itself, it's not something they spend their time talking and crying about or anything like that. Also, when their parents did die, it wasn't from some disease or anything like that, they were killed. One lost a father by an assassin and another lost her family when her entire village was attacked and destroyed. If they get into anything concerning their dead parents, it's mostly about avenging their deaths and killing the ones who killed their loved ones.

Anyway, I guess what I want to know is why some of you find oprhans annoying and with what I've mentioned so far with my main characters, if I'm doing things that make them seem less annoying.
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Sam Junno

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Mrt 30, 2008 - 10 25

For me, I think most people don't like orphans because it's like (in most cases) the author wants the reader to automatically feel sorry for them and whatnot. Plus, it's something for the characters to angst about, which isn't much fun to read. I think that orphans can be written well and be amazing characters, but it seems like a lot of the time the author doesn't add anything more to their personality other than they're an orphan, and therefore must be pitied and you automatically have to root for them. . .

That's just my two cents.

Nannette Worrell
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Mrt 30, 2008 - 15 00

I don't dislike orphans but I agree that it all has to do with the way they are presented in the story. Were you an orphann yourself? Probably a writer who was an orphan can portray a character who is believable and not a stick figure who is an orphan just for the sake of pulling heart strings. Well, there is nothing wrong with pulling heartstrings either. It just has to be real.

Mandragora_Autu...Glowing Halo
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Mrt 31, 2008 - 05 19

My take on it is this, there are two kinds of orphan stories for the most part.
The kid finds out they still have a family.
OR
The kid goes to avenge their family's death.

While not bad strictly speaking, it does get old kinda quickly.

JayElleBee

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Apr 12, 2008 - 06 54

I agree that most people seem to assume that orphans are only orphans because the author wants you to pity them. One of my MCs is an orphan but her parents died due to... well, let's just say an occupational hazard. She doesn't want to avenge them though, and she already knows she has more family so I think I've suceeded in not making her too pathetic. Really, I just needed to get her to live with a woman who was a friend of her parents. *shrug* I suppose it depends on how its written.

IrishBeck

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Apr 17, 2008 - 14 29

We hate orphans? I don't know, I have nothing against them. In fact, it's easier, if you're trying to write up a bad guy (or a more gray character), because then they don't have any family they are attached to. The orphan thing makes everything a little more mysterious. Yes, maybe it is a bit of a cry for pity, but, I personally like a bit of angst in my stories. But that's just me.

emily.scott

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Mei 7, 2008 - 11 46

Orphans can be annoying, like Harry Potter, for instance (don't kill me now, I LOVE the HP-books!) who always talks and whines about it and finds it very disturbing and depressing (well, who wouldn't?).

The reason why my MC is an orphan is because I want to leave as much space as possible for her and the story itself and leave arguments and stuff with the parents out. Mary-Anne isn't bothered by the fact that they're dead; she lives with her uncle who's just like her father and other people in her life who kind of stepped into her parents' shoes. (Based on my own IRL experiences.)

So, I also agree to several of the people here, it's all about how they are written.

ghwriter1976

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Mei 7, 2008 - 13 21

This is exactly what's been plaguing me since yesterday afternoon when I was thinking more about my main character. I can see where the parents would fit in at the beginning of the story, but there's going to be a point where the character breaks away and is trained by someone else and I don't want to have to kill off the parents. I'm trying to figure out how to set up the role of the parents; I almost want to just say to hell with it like in Heavy Metal when Den just said, "I like it better here."

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